We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National Competition on Worries!
We have a very familiar face as a guest today.
Please welcome actress Kim Jung Hwa.
Hello.
Hello, I'm Kim Jung Hwa.
Please welcome Min Hwan and Hong Gi from FTISLAND.
Hello.
They are handsome.
Please welcome the great ballad singer, Han Dong Geun.
Hello. I'm Han Dong Geun.
Yes.
Jung Hwa, how have you been?
- I got married. - Right.
I already have two children.
- Did you have two children? - Congratulations.
My first is 4, and my second is 10 months old.
- Has it already been that long? - Yes.
(She's been married for four years.)
(And she's known for her love for her two sons.)
I heard they are both sons.
You want to have a daughter. Why not have one more?
What?
(I'm happy enough right now.)
I'm really happy to see this person.
- Who? - We were child actors together.
- Who is it? Is it Hong Gi? - It's Hong Gi.
- Hong Gi. - Really?
He was just as handsome then.
(KBS drama "Magic Kid Masuri")
(They are Hong Gi and Tae Joon.)
(They are two handsome friends.)
You came here again after 10 years.
- What? - After 10 years?
I mean... It's been 10 years since their debut.
- FTISLAND... - I debuted 30 years ago.
What did you do for 10 years?
This show hasn't been running for 10 years.
I think they always wait for me to make a mistake.
- They released a 10th Anniversary album. - Yes.
Please sing for us.
Right.
("Wind" by FTISLAND)
(His voice hasn't changed for 10 years.)
(Our love for FTISLAND began...)
(with the song "Love Sick".)
(We will always cheer for you.)
That's how it goes.
(He's amazing.)
I am a big fan of Dong Geun.
- Thank you. - Your song is doing very well.
- Yes. - How do you feel?
Thank you for listening to my song.
I will work hard.
Can you sing without the music too?
- Your new song. - Yes.
("Crazy" by Han Dong Geun)
(His voice is unbelievably sorrowful.)
(It's something we can't hear anywhere else.)
(The authentic ballad touches our hearts.)
(His perfect voice makes his songs perfect.)
(His voice comforts our ears at this late night.)
- That's amazing. - We have three stories again.
Show us the keywords please.
"Please Help My Friend". "My Goodness..."
"My Bleeding Dad".
This person's life has become tough because of one man.
Hello, I am writing this because I want to get rid...
of the lifetime resentment.
My phone rings.
"I need some money. Lend me a thousand dollars."
My phone rings.
"I have to pay my phone bill. Lend me 300 dollars."
My phone rings.
"Lend me 500 dollars this time. Please. Hurry up."
This man who always asks me for money is...
my 39-year-old...
brother.
"Should I do music?"
But he quit soon after.
"Should I just open an internet cafe?"
He quit again.
"I'm so bored. Should I become a comedian?"
He was so immature.
- Does he think this job is easy? - In the end,
he ran away to Seoul with my credit card.
I've been supporting him for 10 years since then.
"Goodness, life is all about one hit."
While trying to make one hit, he got hit many times.
I'm now married, and I have my own family.
Until when do I have to take care of him?
I can't do it anymore. Please talk to my brother.
He's such a good little brother.
It's from someone who lost his life...
while supporting his elder brother. Let's bring him in.
(Who is the man with a burdensome brother?)
(Cho Sang Wook)
(He makes a powerful entrance.)
Goodness.
(Welcome)
You said you've been supporting him for 10 years.
When did it start?
It was since I was discharged from the army.
I've been supporting him for 10 years since then.
When I was discharged from the army, he called me.
"Do you want me to open you an internet cafe?"
- I was tempted by the idea. - An internet cafe.
- You were going to own it. - He said he'd open it.
He was going to become an owner.
So we opened it. But it turned out...
he got a loan of 100,000 dollars under my name.
What? So he didn't open it for you.
I had to pay 3,000 dollars a month.
He suddenly asked.
"Give me your credit card. I need it for something."
After helping me with the business for one year,
he ran away to Seoul.
- Did he? - Yes.
What business did he have in Seoul?
He joined a rock band.
He ran another internet cafe.
He tried becoming a comedian.
He must have some talents.
I guess so. But he always...
spent money on buying people drinks.
He said it's important to get contacts.
He uses 30 dollars for breakfast,
30 dollars for lunch,
and 30 dollars for dinner.
He even drives a red sports car.
I couldn't believe his lifestyle.
Why didn't you suspend the card?
I can't...
suspend the card he has...
because he is a credit delinquent.
He can't live without my card.
- He's such a good man. - He is a good brother.
Every month, you get a bill.
So I have to pay for it every month.
But I can't afford to pay everything. So I work...
2 or 3 jobs. Carrying iron bars pays well.
- Right. - While doing that,
I hurt my hands.
And I lost my thumbnails many times.
(His hands are covered with wounds.)
- His fingernail must've fallen off. - Here too.
My hands will tell you how hard I've been working.
- Right. - He's right.
Do you pay for everything?
If I don't help him, he'll turn to our parents.
I always fight with my wife because of this.
- I'm sure. - She can't understand me.
We fight so much, so I couldn't let her find out.
And I started helping him secretly.
Every month, I get an allowance of 100 dollars.
I keep that and send it to him.
You send him your allowance.
I send him the money I get from doing a part-time job.
I need a side job. Only then I feel relieved.
Why do you keep doing it for him?
What does your brother do now?
He started singing trot 6 or 7 years ago.
- He's a singer. - Is he a trot singer?
But he's not earning any money,
and he's never been on TV.
I don't know what he does.
He's been a trot singer for 6 or 7 years,
but he's not earning anything.
Perhaps did you come here to promote your brother?
I wouldn't have come here if I wanted to do that.
- You would've gone on a better show. - Yes.
(It sounds as if he's disregarding Hello.)
He says he's chasing his dream,
but he keeps giving his family a hard time.
He calls me and makes my life hard.
I want him to stop asking us to sacrifice for him.
- I want him to stop. - Have you ever not helped?
I tried. But he called me one day...
and said, "Honestly,"
"I haven't eaten for three days."
- That's pathetic. - That's sad.
(His words made his family sad.)
He said things were too tough for him.
- That would make you sad. - I hung up.
- I hung up on him. - You'd feel bothered.
I don't know how he afforded to drink.
But he drank and called me in the early morning.
"Help me just once."
He cried too. As a brother,
I couldn't not help him.
(His brother's tears made him soft again.)
Even if he doesn't like the situation,
- it's hard to neglect... - When it happens...
his dear brother.
Let's meet his brother. Hello.
Hello.
(Who's the man being supported by his brother?)
He looks handsome.
- He looks handsome, doesn't he? - He is handsome.
Why do you keep asking money from your brother?
The credit card I use is paid...
by the income that comes from the internet cafe.
Since I set it up for him and gave it to him,
I asked him to share the profit with me.
When I used the shared credit card,
I did use all the money he earned.
It's true. But I don't get his support at all now.
- You're not getting any support? - No.
But he said he was still supporting you.
He helps me when there's an emergency...
and when I lose my grip.
So you are being supported.
(You lose your grip very often.)
I want to clarify something.
Because you set up the internet cafe for him,
do you think you deserve a share of the profit?
When I was moving to Seoul, I promised him...
that I'd be successful and asked him to invest in me.
I asked him to support me to become successful.
That's how it happened.
Did he agree to invest in you?
Of course he agreed.
He's a strong man. He's a scary guy.
(How can you make a joke?)
You said you could become successful in one-shot.
Are you still counting on that idea?
Of course.
If I had a normal job, I would've become a manager.
Then I would get paid 4,000 to 5,000 dollars a month.
That's 60,000 dollars a year.
If I work for 10 years, I'd earn 600,000 dollars.
600,000 dollars in Seoul is... Of course it's big.
But I think it's small.
You can only afford a small house and a car.
It's not enough. I can make a big hit with trot.
You are all celebrities, so you must know.
You can make a lot of money with events.
You can. So...
I thought this was it, and I jumped into this field.
If you were to work for someone,
do you think you can get paid 5,000 dollars a month?
I can never get paid that much.
(He admits it.)
We're good brothers, you know?
We need to assess the facts.
Have you paid him the money you borrowed?
I haven't paid him back everything.
How much did you borrow?
- Approximately? - That's a good question.
I promised him something.
If I become successful,
I'm going to buy him an apartment...
not in Gangnam but in Gangbuk.
We get it.
But how much do you owe him?
About... But he has no money either.
- So how much? - How much is it?
- Give a rough number. - About...
- Give an estimate. - I think about 100,000 dollars.
- 100,000 dollars. - That's how much you owe.
Yes.
- What do you say? - How much does he owe you?
I think it can't be calculated numerically.
- Right. - I got hurt too much.
It took so much of his time.
- He must feel sad. - Are you sad?
It makes me emotional.
(He went through so much for his brother.)
What did you want to do before?
In Busan, I was a member of a quite well-known...
indie band for a long time. I did it with my friends.
We were quite popular,
but we couldn't make enough money.
- Right. - Hong Gi...
has gone completely commercial.
- Commercial. - We...
(I love music too.)
- I am sorry. - What's wrong with you?
Goodness.
And you know the biggest obstacle to a band.
Our guitarist had to serve the military.
We got stressed and disbanded the band.
After we disbanded, I had nothing to do.
So I discussed it with my dad.
"I'm into games, and I hear internet cafés are good."
"Please count on me and open me one."
So he got a loan for me.
I opened it, and it did well.
But one day, kids came to the cafe...
and asked for ramyeon, but I didn't want to serve them.
I felt suffocated inside, and I couldn't stay there.
At the time, SBS was recruiting new comedians.
So I took the test, and I passed right away.
What?
I worked under Cultwo for three months.
(Did you work with us?)
- Did you? - I was the rock...
Are you the rock singer with long hair?
Yes, that's me.
Did he work with you?
(He was in the corner of their memory!)
- I remember him. - That's crazy.
- I remember him. - He's really good.
Why did you quit after three months?
I was an ace.
I made really fun skits.
I was the most popular...
So why did you quit after just three months?
I will tell you. Wait.
(I'll tell you just now.)
He's excited.
"People Looking for Laughter" closed at the time.
- It stopped at the time. - It was when it stopped.
When we heard the news, everyone got shocked.
- Right. - We didn't know what to do.
If you are working as a trot singer,
you must make some money.
Why do you keep asking money from your family?
Because I'm an unknown singer,
I only sing at birthday parties and weddings.
But I'm a rookie, so I get paid 300 to 500 dollars.
When I don't have any gig,
and I don't have enough to pay the phone bill,
I turn to my brother for money. "Lend me 200 dollars."
You don't always have to work at events.
You can do a side job, like your brother.
You have to do something to make money.
When I have a job and get an offer to do a big gig,
I have to quit my job and take the chance.
Whenever that happens, I feel sorry to my boss.
So I can't take regular jobs.
I do loading and unloading parcels and labour work.
I do only short-term jobs.
- You can't have a regular job. - Right.
The nature of my job prevents me from it.
He says he can work, and he does work.
He loads and unloads parcels.
But he goes, "It's hot today."
"It's 36°C. I might die. I can't do it."
- He quits easily. - In winter, he goes,
"It's cold. I can't do this."
"I shouldn't do this."
He says that.
And he keeps asking me for money.
I work 2 to 3 jobs.
What he does is nothing compared to what I do.
He stresses me out so much...
that my face got paralyzed one day.
- You're too young. - Facial paralysis.
- Yes. - Goodness.
When I was eating soup for breakfast,
it kept coming out from one side.
So I stayed in a hospital for a month.
The doctor said I had to practice my pronunciation...
about 3,000 times a day to become normal again.
- But... - I kept saying it.
- Did you? - I even did it in my dreams.
My mouth moved by itself.
So I recovered.
You're laughing now, but it was serious for me.
- Right. - It must've been so tough for him.
How did you feel when you saw him like that?
Did you know about this?
I didn't have any money for transportation.
So I heard about his condition.
I was so sorry.
(He suddenly feels sorry.)
He's suddenly crying.
- He's sorry. - Right.
- He's soft. - When...
I saw my brother's mouth paralyzed,
I felt really bad.
If you feel bad, you should do your job.
- Crying doesn't do anything. - Right.
How did you feel?
When you were paying for his credit card bills,
what was the biggest amount you have paid?
(He can't calm down.)
He's sad.
When I was paying his bills, the amount...
ranged from several thousands to...
- 1,000 dollars? - 10,000 dollars.
- That's a lot. - That's a monthly bill, right?
Yes. I somehow paid for everything.
How did he spend 10,000 dollars a month?
I wrote and produced my songs.
I had to promote them, but my agency wasn't doing well.
So I had to produce my album on my own.
My parents supported me to chase my dream,
and they lent me money for the last time.
So that's where the money went in.
Their parents are here too.
- Hello. - Hello.
Because of your elder son,
your younger son is suffering a lot.
Do you sympathize with your younger son?
Yes. I'm honored to be here because of my son.
(He subtly slanders his son.)
- Goodness. - My youngest...
is acting as the eldest. He takes care...
of his father, his mother, and his brother.
- I am so thankful to him. - Right.
How have you been supporting your eldest?
He came to Seoul in 2005.
He took 20,000 dollars at the time.
He needed it to pay the rental deposit.
We trusted him and gave him the money.
But he lost all of that money.
Last year, he asked for 20,000 dollars...
to produce his album.
We gave him 20,000 dollars, but he began to ask...
for 3,000, 7,000, 1,000, and 500 dollars.
He continued to ask us for money.
- I don't think he is making an album. - Seriously.
- It's hard to believe. - It doesn't make sense.
He says that the money is for making an album,
- but he uses it as an allowance. - I see.
He borrows money if he needs more money.
How much money have you spent on him so far?
The total amount is near 200,000 dollars.
- 200,000 dollars? - Yes.
He spent 20,000 dollars every year.
It doesn't count the money from his brother.
He continuously asks for money.
It's like pouring water into a bottomless pot.
How did you get that kind of money?
We took out secured loans with our house as collateral.
My husband also set up a line of credit.
- He set up a line of credit. - Yes.
- Also, - My goodness.
I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer nine years ago...
and received money from my insurance company.
He took the money without thinking.
He doesn't care about his family.
He only cares about himself.
Are you still in debt?
Yes. We never got to travel abroad like the others.
We are still about 100,000 dollars in debt.
- Why... - You are 100,000 dollars...
- in debt. - Yes.
Yes.
Sir, how much do you pay back every month?
A taxi driver must take several days off a month.
I work 17 days a month.
I must work 15 hours to make 100 dollars a day.
It's hard to make 100 dollars a day.
- Sir. - I make about 2,000 dollars a month.
My wife takes out 1,000 dollars from the total...
She pays off debt with it. - to pay off debt.
It's the money my beloved son spent.
(Angry)
Your beloved son.
Did you know about the 100,000-dollar debt?
I received about 40,000 or 50,000 dollars.
My mother exaggerates when she says...
she spent 200,000 dollars on me.
My family isn't that rich.
You continue to give excuses.
- Okay. - Their situation makes your heart ache,
- doesn't it? - Don't minimize the money you spent.
For goodness' sake.
You know,
your parents are struggling financially.
So is your brother.
Don't you think it's dangerous to put your hopes...
- in the uncertain future? - It's reckless.
Trot is the passion of my life.
I put a lot of effort into realizing my dream.
As you know, the population is aging rapidly.
I want to be a trot singer and make people happy.
I think it's good to have to a dream.
- That's right. - However, like I said before,
you fail to take care of those around you...
in your desire to realize your dream.
- You only receive support from the others. - I know.
It a sad situation.
You think of success as a one-shot deal.
- That's right. - It's not a one-shot deal.
Success is built on continuous and diligent works.
You haven't even debuted yet.
You won't become a hit right after you debut.
There is a problem with your mindset.
I was the winner of "Star Audition: The Great Birth".
I thought incredible things will happen afterwards.
- That's right. - The change doesn't come suddenly.
It wasn't like that.
I thought I would make a lot of money.
However, thinking about money ruined my music.
It's time to think in an objective and realistic way.
Even if it's heartbreaking, those around him...
should draw a line so that he doesn't ask for money.
Haven't you thought to stop supporting him?
Since he always asked for money when he came home,
I made him give me a written promise.
He promised to pay back what he has borrowed.
It was two years ago, but he borrowed money last year.
He still borrows money from us.
You should forget about a written promise.
Haven't you thought to stop supporting him completely?
When we brought it up,
he talked about depression and committing suicide.
(It's the worst thing he can say to his parents.)
He would say that late at night.
- He is the worst. - His words made me worry...
that I will drive him to commit suicide.
It's not like I will take money with me when I die.
That's why I couldn't cut him off in a cool-headed way.
(He can only sigh.)
Let's take this moment to see...
if he has talent to succeed as a trot singer.
- That's a good idea. - Let's listen to him sing.
That's a good idea.
(Good luck, my son.)
(He is channelling the spirit of trot.)
(He dreams of succeeding as a trot singer.)
(The eldest son is excited.)
(Depressed)
(His posture looks familiar.)
(He sings passionately in hopes of success.)
(Happy!)
(Let's be happy)
(Stretching out the note)
Thank you.
(What does the audience think?)
Say something.
I have no words.
- Don't embarrass him. - I am going over the lyrics.
"Such is life".
Dong Geun, tell us what you think.
- Me? - You are a singer.
Give us a one-sentence review.
I don't know.
Really?
What changes in your brother were you hoping...
when you sent your worry?
I want him to lead the family as the eldest son...
and take care of small or big matters.
However, he doesn't do that.
"Let's have dinner for our parent's 60th birthday."
"I don't have money for traveling expenses."
"You can take care of it."
"I will only send my love." He says that.
He says he doesn't have money for traveling expenses.
Yes. He comes...
when I send him 500 dollars for traveling expenses.
- 500 dollars? - That's too much.
Since it's an event, I pay a performance fee.
(It's an event.)
- It's a family event. - A family event.
You pay your brother a performance fee.
At my parent's 60th birthday or other family events,
he receives an allowance from Mother.
(That's unbelievable.)
Why did you need 500 dollars?
The round trip on a bus cost 80 dollars.
I also had to buy gifts for my niece...
- and meet up with friends. - He bought gifts.
Anyway, I am sorry. I am in a tight spot.
He used the money he received from you...
to buy gifts for your daughter.
It's ridiculous, but he cares about his niece.
My daughter is five years old.
- She never received a gift from him. - What?
What do you mean?
She never received a toy from my brother.
He just said that he bought your daughter gifts.
You said you needed the money for gifts.
I had the intention of buying her gifts, but...
For goodness' sake.
This is ridiculous.
Did you decide to visit the show...
because he has done something particularly bad?
No. My mother and I will stop supporting him...
financially.
- It's a heavy burden. - I am done.
- It's hard. - I feel like I am going to die.
I told my parents, too.
My mother calls me...
whenever she can't get a hold of my brother.
She calls me and says, "I can't reach your brother."
"Have you talked to him recently?"
"What do you want me to do?"
We end up fighting and I hang up the phone.
Then I call my brother because I am worried.
I repeatedly send him text messages and call...
even if his cell phone is turned off.
My mother goes, "Did you talk to him?"
"Stop it. I need to live my life."
"Stop pushing me. Let me live my life."
My feelings get hurt.
Of course.
Whenever she does that...
- I feel bad for him. - I have a wife and a daughter.
She hurts my feelings often...
by only taking care of my brother.
I feel lonely.
You need to consider what your brother said.
Your brother said...
he might become depressed and kill himself.
Your parents can't help but worry.
I know.
You haven't heard this before, right?
- Yes. - How do you feel?
- You hurt his feelings. - I feel bad.
I see.
You heard what has been happening...
- between the family members. - Yes.
It's hard for them to support you financially.
When you don't stay in touch, your brother argues...
with your mom.
I came here cheerfully,
but hearing their worries makes me realize...
that I have done them wrong.
They are my family,
not my investors. This is a sticky situation.
No matter what happens from now on,
I promise not to ask for more financial support.
I will work hard to make my name known...
in the trot industry.
There is something you should know.
Take a look at people in the entertainment industry.
No one succeeded with money from his or her family.
- No one did. - I had nothing at first.
I lived in rat-infested room and worked many jobs.
I repeatedly failed in auditions...
and challenged myself while working part time.
Say what you want to say to your brother.
Brother.
I won't stop you from pursuing a career in music.
I hope everything works out for you.
I don't want you to call me or Mom and Dad.
I don't want to hear you say it will be the last time.
Don't say, "Help me this one last time."
Let the family live in peace.
I hope you live well. I love you.
(His words are blunt, but full of love.)
Dong Geun, tell us if you think it's a worry.
Okay. I felt emotional.
I think it's a serious worry.
I hope the family will live in harmony.
Since every problem they face has stemmed...
from you,
I hope you would make wise decision.
I also think it's a worry.
Parents don't wait for their children.
I was very busy after I debuted...
and couldn't take good care of my parents.
Then my mom got cancer and passed away in a few years.
She was gone when I could finally take care of her.
I hope you would keep that in mind...
and make an effort for your family.
I also think it's a worry.
I hope you would look back on your family.
I think it's a worry.
It's nice that you have talent.
Please live happily and harmoniously with your family.
If you can sympathize with the man with a heavy burden,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - Time's up.
Please say a few words to your younger brother.
My beloved brother.
From now on,
I won't ask for financial help.
I will try my best to become an older brother...
you can lean on.
I love you.
(We hope the family will become happy.)
Let's see how many votes the worry received.
Show us the result.
(The result)
("My goodness...")
(The last digit is 0.)
It received over 100 votes.
(What will be the result?)
160 votes.
(My goodness.)
(160 votes)
The title of the next worry is "My Bleeding Dad".
Hello, I am a woman in my 20s...
who live with suspense like a character in a drama.
I feel anxiety, anger,
and a sensation of my heart dropping.
It's all because of one man.
"Gosh, you reek of alcohol."
"Did you drink again?"
"I had a few drinks on my way home."
"Let's go for a third round..."
"and have soju and beer."
Are you a fool?
- I thought your acting skills improved. - Wait.
- You are playing her dad. - Her dad?
- You misunderstood. - It's her dad.
- Did you think it's her boyfriend? - Yes.
Let's try it again.
"Gosh, you reek of alcohol. Did you drink again?"
"I had a few drinks on my way home."
"Let's go for a third round and have soju and beer."
My dad doesn't go a day without drinking.
(Her dad doesn't go a day without drinking.) subtitles ripped and synced by riri13
The problem is,
he gets hurt whenever he drinks.
(Phone rings.)
"Dad, it's past 12am."
"Why aren't you coming home? Dad."
"My daughter."
"I am at the hospital."
I don't know where he had gotten hurt,
but blood was pouring out of his face.
His clothes and shoes were soaked in blood.
This is what makes me angrier.
"Dad, you get hurt all the time."
"You should stop drinking."
"I didn't get hurt because I drank."
"It would have happened whether I drank or not."
"I just happened to be drunk at the time."
His words make no sense.
I can't reason with him anymore.
Please help my dad see senses.
That's the worry.
Why did everyone look away at the mention of drinking?
(The male MCs have no words.)
- Dong Yeob. - Yes?
Well, the fact that I enjoy drinking often...
- is nothing to be proud about. - Tell me.
- It's not advisable. - Have you ever gotten hurt?
Whenever I drink,
- I fall asleep. - He falls asleep.
Like I said before...
Don't lie. I have known you for 20 years.
I haven't seen you fall asleep once.
I don't fall asleep in front of you.
(He makes a shocking confession after 20 years.)
Does he fall asleep after I leave?
- You kept yourself awake. - That's right.
I kept myself awake.
I keep myself awake when I drink...
with Lee Yeong Ja or Hong Suk Chun.
Seriously.
I won't be safe if I fall asleep.
Let's talk to the daughter who sent us the worry.
Please come on out.
(Whose worry involves a dad who always gets hurt?)
(Park Si Yi)
Help her.
(Welcome)
Does your dad get hurt after he drinks?
There is an incident that began this line of accidents.
It was the anniversary of my grandmother's death.
The relatives were waiting, but my dad didn't come.
We waited...
without knowing what was going on. He came home,
but his one eye was swollen up like a balloon.
I asked him what happened.
He was got drink and fell asleep on the street.
He fall over and scratched his face...
- on the asphalt. - My goodness.
It didn't end with the first accident.
He once got drunk and fell down...
the stairs...
before he came home.
They are minor accidents.
Are they minor accidents?
- Are you sure about that? - He fell down the stairs.
I am surprised that he is still alive.
Seriously.
There was once a very serious accident.
He didn't pick up the phone until 3am.
Around 4am, I got a call from his friend.
He said that my dad is hurt and at the hospital.
When he came home later,
his clothes and shoes were soaked...
in blood.
- He bled a lot. - Yes.
He couldn't wear his shoes.
I looked at his face closely and found...
that he got 30 stitches from the forehead to the nose.
While he was drinking,
a stranger joined in.
That man was drinking without a trouble...
when he suddenly picked up a glass full of ice...
and threw it to my dad's face.
That's unbelievable.
My dad hadn't done anything.
Since you might not get the full picture,
we prepared a video he took in his drunkenness.
- My goodness. - I can't believe it.
(His face is badly hurt.)
(Shocked)
Do you continue to drink after this incident?
You should direct your question to Si Yi.
- Does your dad... - We haven't met...
- her dad yet. - That's right.
Does your dad continue to drink?
The doctor told him not to drink...
- for a month. - Of course.
He said drinking might cause...
an infection of the wound.
My dad said he won't drink of a month...
and kept his promise.
As soon as a month came to an end,
he went drinking again.
I couldn't reach him again.
Please come on out.
(Who is obsessed with drinking?)
Hello.
- You heard your daughter's worry. - Yes.
Do you understand?
I don't think it's a worry.
You say that even though you get hurt a lot.
We saw the picture.
I don't remember it.
You may not remember it, but you fell down the stairs.
- You went to the hospital. - Yes.
How can you still think it's not a worry?
It's okay. I can't live without alcohol.
How much do you drink?
I drink 2 to 3 bottles of soju on weekdays.
I drink about seven bottles of soju on weekends.
I am not exactly sure...
because I have no memory in the morning.
Is that right?
(A blackout is not something to be proud about.)
It must be fun to have no memory.
(It's a serious worry.)
Where do you drink every day?
With whom do you drink?
I like friends and alcohol.
- I go to high school alumni groups. - Alumni groups.
My high school has seven alumni groups.
- Your high school has seven alumni groups. - Yes.
Do they have same members?
Yes, they do.
Do all members love to drink?
There are a neighborhood group, impromptu gatherings,
a company group,
a national marine corps group,
and a Busan marine corps group.
- A marine corps group. - Yes.
30 days a month aren't enough.
There must be more.
I am also in hiking and golf groups.
You drink a lot.
How is your health?
I am healthy. Last year,
I had a medical checkup.
Both my liver and stomach are clean.
That's incredible for someone who drinks a lot.
I drank that day.
I had to.
He drinks too much.
Let's go over the accidents one by one.
You got hurt on the anniversary of your mother's death.
You should have come home early on that day.
I was going to go home early,
but it rained that day.
- You have to drink on a rainy day. - Yes.
I crave for alcohol when it rains.
(He craves for alcohol when it rains.)
Since it was raining,
I ended up drinking without stopping.
After I got the call,
I was on my home...
when I felt someone...
smack me on the back painfully.
In a surprised state, I fell down.
The impact woke me up.
I had fallen down on the asphalt on my own.
(He had fallen down on the asphalt.)
I had fallen down.
- My goodness. - This is serious.
- Could you explain about the photo? - Okay.
I felt something roll down on my face.
It turned out to be blood.
The next morning, I saw the photos...
on my phone.
I don't remember taking those photos.
(When did I take these photos?)
(He takes danger lightly because he can't remember.)
What are the reasons you drink often?
Are you stressed out a lot or do you just like it?
I have the normal level of stress from work.
- I just like drinking. - You like drinking?
I like meeting friends and having fun with them.
- You just like drinking, right? - That's right.
One day, I saw some days were marked on the calendar.
My wife marked the calendar to see how often I drink.
- Your wife did? - Yes.
It's almost every day.
(Almost every day is marked.)
What does the triangle mean?
That's when I drank a little less than usual.
What about the circle?
- That's when I got hammered. - I guess he was drunk.
(He got completely drunk more than half of the month.)
- He was completely drunk. - What's that?
What's that big tick?
I stayed out overnight that day.
(He even stayed out overnight.)
- Oh, my. - There's a note too.
I wrote that.
Who? Did you write that?
Your daughter wrote it.
What was the occasion?
It wasn't a special day.
I drank with my friend, and it was so fun.
You didn't drink on others' birthdays though.
I had a drink, but they didn't mark those days.
They don't mark the days I drank with my family.
I told them not to do that.
- It's because I was with them. - It doesn't count?
I told them not to mark those days.
He drink almost every single day.
He doesn't remember the accidents, right?
The bigger problem is that when he drinks,
- he doesn't answer his phone. - Right.
He even slept on the street once.
He lost his mobile phone and wallet several times.
He lost 600 to 700 dollar worth of gift certificates,
- and... - Oh, goodness.
he lost cash 2,000 to 3,000 dollars of cash.
2,000 to 3,000 dollars?
Haven't you thought you should drink less?
- You lost a lot. - I have no intention of doing so.
Don't you think you should drink less?
No. I never thought I should drink less.
- I wonder how your family members think. - Me too.
As for my mom... I lived in Seoul...
for a year for study.
My dad calls my mom and says...
that there's a tree in front of him,
and there are some cars on the road,
- and asks her to pick him up. - That's what he saw.
- Please continue. - So my mom...
ran away from home.
- I see. - She came to me.
She said she would do the same as my dad.
She turned off her mobile phone.
Why didn't she come on the show today?
Every time she looks at Dad, her blood boils.
- Her blood boils. - She's distressed.
- Her blood boils. - Yes.
- She was too embarrassing. - I see.
Your wife ran away from home and turned her phone off.
How did you feel?
She always comes back home.
She came home after that.
Didn't you apologize to her?
- I don't remember that. - However,
do you not remember anything every time you drink?
Not every time I drink. I remember some days.
- Just when you drink a lot? - I asked you that...
because your family members suffer...
- during the time you don't remember. - Right.
You don't take it seriously saying you don't remember.
Don't you think you're irresponsible and selfish?
I feel a little sorry for them,
but I drink again next day, and I can't remember.
- He doesn't... - Imagine your wife drinks a lot.
- She gets hurt. - She says she doesn't remember.
- "I don't remember." - When you ask where she is,
she says, "I see three trees. Come pick me up."
- "I see the sky." - Women shouldn't...
drink outside like that.
Gender doesn't matter.
- Then, Sir... - Men can drink like that?
- That's ridiculous. - What if...
- your son, a man, drinks every day... - My son?
- when he's grown up? - He'll learn from you.
He'll drink just like you.
That's not acceptable. I should teach him.
How would you teach him when you drink like that?
- Exactly. - You know that you're doing wrong.
- He knows that. - However, I like drinking,
hanging out with friends...
- At first, he looked like a nice person, - He did.
but it turns out he's not a nice person.
- Is he evil? - He's immature.
- He's immature. - He's totally immature.
- What do you think? - I don't want to say this,
but just as he said,
I think he's immature.
Since we were children, my brother and I...
didn't talk to Dad very often.
Also, my family members don't even know...
how much my dad's income is.
- Even your mom? - She doesn't know either.
He said it's a secret. He said, "I won't tell anyone."
He's so immature.
- Then... - "You'll never know."
- "I won't tell you." - He spends all on drinking?
- Oh, my. - Does he not contribute financially?
He's the head of the family,
- but he doesn't take responsibility. - Goodness.
Does he not contribute financially?
He paid for the institute fees for me and my brother,
and he gives us allowances, but that's all.
- My mom pays the bills. - Your mom does?
He must give her the money for bills.
As far as I know, he doesn't.
- Do you not pay the bills? - No, I don't.
- Do you really not pay them? - No, he doesn't.
How can he say that so cheerfully?
- He doesn't give the living cost? - He's shameless.
What do you pay for?
I pay for my kids' institute fees.
My spouse pays for her insurance.
- Spouse? Are you talking about your wife? - Yes.
Yes.
- Do you always call her that? - What about food?
- That's... - I thought...
- Pardon? - That's how you call a wife or a husband.
(I understand why he makes her wife angry.)
How much do you spend a day on drinking?
- I drink only soju and beer. - Okay.
I spend between several dozen dollars and 200 dollars.
You pay most of the time, right?
Yes, I do.
- The first one to suggest always pays. - Exactly.
- Right. - He must spend 3,000 dollars a month.
- Do you spend 5,000 dollars? - 3,000 dollars.
- 3,000 dollars. - 3,000 dollars a month at least.
- Right. - He must spend at least 3,000 dollars.
3,000 dollars.
- Today... - "I won't tell you the exact amount."
(Dad, please grow up already.)
Your wife didn't come here today because she's angry,
but your daughter and son are here.
Let's meet with his son. Hi.
(He bows politely.)
- You heard your sister's concern. - Yes.
Do you understand why she's worried?
He drinks alcohol as if it's water.
- My gosh. - I'm used to it now.
I'm not worried so much about it.
She said your dad doesn't care about your future.
What do you think about that?
I'm disappointed, but I'm used to that too.
I only talk to my mom.
I'm in 12th grade. I go home after my classes,
and always go to bed after midnight.
My dad comes home around that hour.
He always wakes me up when I'm about to fall asleep,
and nags me to chat with him.
He asks me to chat with him only when he's drunk.
Your dad doesn't remember the next day.
- He can't remember what he said. - That's right.
He repeats the same thing.
- That's another problem. - Yes.
Don't you think you're too indifferent about your son?
Since he was a child, my wife took good care of him,
so I left it to her because she's good with kids.
My mom suffers the most.
Is that right? What makes her suffer the most?
My dad does nothing to contribute to family life.
My mom has hyperventilation syndrome.
- What's that? - She can't breathe...
- all of a sudden. - I've never heard of it.
Not long ago, we called an ambulance for her.
My dad went out for a drink two days later.
Even when his wife was sick?
(Shouldn't you have been worried about your wife?)
- Sir. - Yes?
Did you not drink for the two days...
because your wife was taken to the hospital?
Yes. She came back home.
I have meetings arranged almost every day,
so I had to attend it. Besides, even if I was with her,
I wouldn't have made any difference.
- So I went out for a drink. - That's harsh.
- He's unbelievable. - You could've cancelled it.
No one would've backbite you. Your wife was sick.
I didn't even tell them about her...
because I like drinking with them.
Why do you think your mom developed...
- hyperventilation syndrome? - Hyperventilation.
Why did the doctor say she has the disease?
The stress from the family is the main cause.
- Of course. - How about you meet friends less often,
and drink less?
I can't meet my friends less often.
I wish I could meet them more often.
Can you drink less instead?
I don't think I can drink less.
- How can he be so brazen? - You can't do that?
(He really makes me angry.)
- I can't... - You drank in the train, didn't you?
- I really didn't drink. - You didn't?
You'll drink right after this, right?
Yes, I'll drink on my way back home.
He's driving me crazy.
Your daughter looks distressed.
She smiles, but she's worried.
Your dad just said he won't quit drinking.
- How do you feel? - How can he be like that?
If we hadn't come on this show,
my family would have been...
- separated. - Is the situation that bad?
If my dad won't change...
I understand why you choked up.
If your dad won't change...?
I feel like we won't care if he gets hurt...
or drinks a lot and stays out overnight.
I think we'll become indifferent.
I'm scared we might become like that.
When I see my brother having no conversation with Dad,
it reminds me of myself when I was in school.
It breaks my heart.
I see.
Sir, among all of the people...
who made their families come on this show...
and all the people I know personally,
you have the most serious drinking problem.
- He has a problem. - However, most alcoholics...
- try to fix the problem... - They feel sorry.
when their families and friends ask them to change.
You have no intention of quitting drinking.
It feels like you're not in this family.
You know that you drink more than normal, right?
Please be honest with us.
- I didn't think I drank that much. - He didn't know.
That's why he acted like that.
- I didn't think I drank that much. - He didn't know.
That's why he acted like that.
- Your friends... - It became my daily routine.
Above all, you said the correct answer before.
You said your wife, daughter, and son shouldn't drink.
That means you think that it's bad.
You know that.
Even though you know that,
you're saying you won't quit. That's ridiculous.
(Doesn't it mean that you ignore your family?)
While you hang out with your friends...
you might lose the more precious thing to you,
your family. Haven't you think about that?
No, I haven't thought about it either.
- How would you feel? - How do you feel now?
- Think about it now. - Right.
Imagine your family members turn their back on you.
That has never happened to me in my life.
(My goodness. He makes me angry.)
So you won't quit drinking for your family, right?
That's right.
(His children are disappointed in him.)
- He... Go ahead. - He said...
(She became emotional.)
- that his family... - She's disappointed.
- I thought she would be. - She's disappointed.
- She must be. - He keeps saying he's important,
- but not his family. - How sad...
- would that make her? - She must be sad.
Stop crying. Your dad isn't himself right now.
He drank too much to think clearly.
- I'd be upset if my dad was like that. - He's drunk.
- How could he say such a thing brazenly? - Right.
(He hurt his children's feelings who trusted him.)
Let's say your daughter comes home at 3am.
- Would you worry about her? - Yes, I would.
Why would you be worried?
I'd be worried something bad might happen to her.
You often get hurt when you go out for a drink.
Do you think your wife and children are worried...
- when you're out? - They must be worried.
- Then... - Why do you make them worry?
(Why do you make them worry when you know that?)
- You should take responsibility. - Right.
Do you want your family stop caring about you?
No. They can't do that.
- You should drink less. - You should make effort.
If you can't quit drinking,
you can go home early.
You should show that you're trying to change.
If you keep saying that you won't change anything,
your daughter must be disappointed in you.
It could become hard to continue the meetings.
However, when you go through a hard time,
your family can be around you...
giving you emotional support.
I hope you will realize that.
Regardless of the show,
you should go to a clinic,
and consult a doctor about your problem.
You have to make an effort on your own.
You have a serious problem.
- I feel sorry for you. - You need help.
Your children grew up so well for how you raised them.
You never express your love for them.
You don't sacrifice anything as a dad.
Their mom is amazing.
I understand why your mom got sick.
If you have anything to say to your dad, say it now.
I want him to drink only twice or three times a week.
I also hope he pays more attention to my brother.
And as for my mom...
I hope he'll become...
a good husband for my mom.
(Please be a good dad and husband.)
Hong Gi, you go first.
It's definitely a worry.
I think it's a worry too.
If you try to build a bond with...
your daughter and son,
your family will be very happy.
- Jung Hwa. - Any daughter dreams of...
having a good time with her dad...
watching a movie and having a meal together.
I hope you'll be a dad like that.
You didn't do it for her until now.
I'm not saying that you should quit drinking.
I think you should drink less.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- Counting, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - Counting, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. - Stop.
Sir, I saw you lower your head.
I'm regretting.
My daughter, Si Yi.
As you said,
I'll drink only 3 or 4 times a week.
I'll discuss it with your mom.
I'll also try to talk more with you from now on.
I will make efforts.
Say a word to your son too. He's in 12th grade.
Son, I'm sorry.
(Son, I'm sorry.)
- I will try hard. - Great.
Tell him you love him.
I love you, my son.
Please show us how many votes she got.
"My Bleeding Dad".
"My Goodness..." is the current winner with 160 votes.
If the digit is 6 or 7, she can be the winner.
The number is going up.
(She got 152 votes.)
The title is "Please Help My Friend".
Hello. I'm a man in my 30s living in Gwangju.
I have a friend whom I've known for eight years.
Please help me humiliate him today.
What's the problem?
"I'm a potential criminal."
"Why? It's because women may die..."
"from a heart attack when they see me."
"Not long ago, the nurses at a hospital..."
"compete each other to give me the injection."
- No way. - My friend...
thinks he's so handsome, and it's a problem.
"Listen. I can make every woman in this world..."
"fall in love with me."
"Do you see that girl?"
"She keeps looking at me because I'm handsome."
"Watch me."
"Excuse me. Are you interested in me?"
"Do you want my phone number?"
He asks women out all the time.
Whenever he does that, I want to hide in a hole.
Exactly. That's so embarrassing.
Everyone, please help me make him...
come to his senses by humiliating him.
I think he does that every day.
(Please help my friend come to his senses.)
Shall we meet him?
- Please come out. - Please come out.
(Who is the man whose friend is delusional?)
(Kim Ui Hyeon)
Hello, hello.
(Welcome)
How serious is his problem?
He thinks he's the most handsome in Gwangju.
In Gwangju?
Every time he looks into the mirror,
he says that he's so handsome.
He writes a post like this on his social media.
"I don't let any woman sit next to me..."
"because she may die from a heart attack."
He always posts something like this.
- I really don't like him. - Gosh.
- Is that true? - Nobody in the audience died.
"Pretty Boy in Gwangju", "Handsome Guy in Gwangju",
"The Prince of Gwangju".
(The cast members burst out laughing.)
- That must be him. - These are his tagging keywords.
- He put on sunglasses suddenly. - That must be him.
(While Ui Hyeon was talking about his social media,)
(his friend put on sunglasses all of a sudden.)
He's so despicable.
(We can see how he acts already.)
I don't know him.
He's unbelievable.
I feel so embarrassed when I'm with him.
- He thinks he's more attractive than Won Bin. - Yes.
- He thinks anyone will fall for him? - Yes, he does.
He must be very handsome.
He's not that handsome.
He flirts with girls with his eyes all the time.
(His friend flirts with girls all the time.)
Whenever their eyes meet, he thinks she fell for him,
but he's mistaken.
If he's just mistaken, I wouldn't worry about him.
He says he feels excited when he flirts with a girl.
He said his ultimate goal is...
- Singer Hong Jin Young. - My goodness.
- His ultimate goal is? - Yes.
- She's from Gwangju too. - That's right.
(She'll fall in love with me once she looks at me.)
I understand that your friend is delusional,
but why does it give you a hard time?
When we meet my acquaintances together,
he always tells them where they can meet a girl,
and that he has met a lot of girls,
and he prefers a beautiful body to a pretty face.
As he always says things like this,
that ruins my public image too.
Let's meet with his friend now.
- I'm curious. - I want to see his face now.
(We're curious how he looks!)
Let's meet him. Hello. Welcome.
(He looks around.)
(Hi, I'm Bae In Kyu.)
Why are you looking around?
I made a request about the angle.
- What do you mean? - My right side looks better,
So I asked them to film my right side.
You asked to film your right side?
Yes, that's right.
- Find the right angle by yourself. - Okay.
(Adjusting the angle)
- What is the right angle? - My right side.
- Turn your head. - Our cameramen are...
Like this?
(As you wish, Your Highness!)
I think your left side looks better.
No.
(This is the best angle, right?)
(He shows his face.)
- He's handsome. - He's handsome.
- He's a snob, but handsome. - That's right.
If he's just joking, he would be charming.
- If it's a joke, he would be charming. - Are you...
Are you serious...
- about the camera angle? - Right.
That was my condition for appearing on the show.
(That was my condition for appearing on the show!)
- Do you like this angle? - Yes, I do.
(What kind of person is he?)
Is your ultimate goal really Hong Jin Young?
One of the reasons I keep practising is...
for attracting Hong Jin Young.
I'm working hard to polish my skills.
What is your intention?
Do you want to marry her?
Yes, that too.
- Jin Young would be... - Do you think...
she will fall in love with you...
once she looks into your eyes?
She'll be mesmerized at once.
(He thinks even Hong Jin Young will fall for him!)
(Oh, my. Anyone, please say something.)
I can't think of what to say to that.
(Everyone is speechless.)
You know...
(They all look away or lower their heads.)
- My goodness. - You know...
(I'm the best in the whole world!)
I heard you suddenly gained confidence three years ago.
Was there a reason?
I went to a nightclub.
I know it's not right to do this,
but I asked three women for their numbers,
and all three of them gave me their numbers.
I thought, "I must be deadly charming."
- "Deadly charming"... - "It's working now."
You want to speed if you have a car with a good engine.
I decided to rock my 20s.
That's my plan.
It's not a bad plan,
but I think you're going in the wrong direction.
(I really hope that you'd check your direction.)
- He's driving backwards. - In fact, I'll have...
a good married life after dating many women.
(He's dating many women for a good married life!)
Do you think there are women who like you here?
- Look around... - There are many single women here.
- You can tell from their looks. - Look at them.
(Whom will he choose?)
Whom do you think likes you?
- The woman in the yellow dress. - Where?
(Hey, lady.)
- Which one? - The yellow dress and the blonde hair.
The one that's looking around right now.
(Me? What did I do? Why?)
I guess it's you.
- She has a boyfriend. - She's with her boyfriend.
(We can't be together.)
I think he's just a very happy guy.
(He's not a bad guy. He's just a happy guy.)
- He's always positive and happy. - That's right.
(There are two types of women in the world.)
(Those who dated me,)
(and those who are waiting for me.)
(Are you anxious about when you will see me?)
(It's okay. I'll always keep my engine turned on.)
Do you really think that you are handsome?
(No, that's not it.)
Among ordinary men, I'm of a top class.
- And then? - People tell me that too.
- I think he's handsome. - Go on.
I'd say I'm one of top 10 handsome guys in Gwangju.
Do you think you're more handsome than these guys?
- Can I be honest? - The four men.
- Yes, be honest. - I'm number one.
- Number one. - Just like that?
(You think you're at the top on Hello?)
Number one?
You're number one?
Are you serious?
Number two would be Lee Hong Gi.
- Why would you rank them? - You're serious?
He says you are number two.
At least you are in the second place.
What do you think, Hong Gi?
Do you think he's more handsome than you?
- Be honest. - Be honest. He say's you're second.
I think his features are big.
Is he more handsome than you?
No.
(No way.)
We should just make assumptions.
- He's like my youngest uncle. - Your youngest uncle.
You wrote, "You'll get a heart attack by sitting..."
"next to me," on SNS. Why did you do that?
Rather than saying "I'm not pretty,"
if you have good looks like this,
I think it's more attractive to be honest.
You think saying honestly that you're handsome...
is better.
I'm curious. Let's see his account...
- to find out what he wrote. - What did he write,
- and what picture did he post? - They're ready.
- They're ready? - Let's take a look.
(Let's see the pictures.)
"I don't get women to sit next to me..."
"because they may die from a heart attack."
- "A potential criminal." - "A killer."
(His manner beats everyone else's.)
Is there anything else?
- "The divine looks". - "Even I find my eyes sexy."
- Gosh, he's driving me nuts. - "The prince".
- "Even I find my eyes sexy." - He's driving me nuts.
"The prince".
(I'm sure you'd want me, but be patient.)
(His comments make you cringe.)
Is there anything else?
(Incredible)
"My good looks and a nice car".
"I enjoy them both."
- The picture. - He covered his license plate.
Did you cover it in case someone chases after you?
People don't say,
"Do you like me? I think you like me."
"Do you want my number?" Is this what you say?
That's what handsome guys do.
(I just live up to my good looks!)
I get it.
Anyway...
Do they all give you their numbers then?
About 99 women out of 100 do.
(His success rate of winning their love is 99 percent!)
In fact, I don't get why that one woman rejects me.
I think she's a bit strange.
- Why don't you get it? - I...
(Go away!)
It's almost like "I don't like men."
I heard you spend so much money to date women.
You change your car and, and you have 30 suits.
I don't say this often.
If this is aired,
- you better take notes. - Go ahead.
- You better take notes. - I'm curious.
Look. When you get the girl's number,
going out for drinks would be the best to become close,
but instead of going overboard,
I go out for a meal.
- Women can't resist it. - Isn't he right, Yeong Ja?
Yes.
(It must be nice!)
During the meal, take out movie tickets.
In fact, you shouldn't just watch a movie.
You should touch the woman slightly.
"How scary. Isn't it funny?"
The guy beside you did nothing wrong.
That subtly creates a bit of romantic feelings.
Go for coffee after the movie.
I must pay for that...
because doing so would make the girl feel guilty.
Then she'd naturally say, "Let's go for drinks."
There are things like that.
- You all know. - I spend my money with a strategy.
I don't splurge it.
He's basically writing a novel.
(He spends a lot of money and writes novels.)
Do you end the relationships first...
or get dumped by women?
I mostly break up with women first.
- Almost... - You've never been dumped?
(Have you never been dumped by women?)
It was a very long time ago.
- Since you've been dumped? - Before I was complete.
"Before I was complete."
(I got dumped once before my looks were complete!)
Do you have your strategy for breaking up as well?
- No, I just break up. - Do you text the girl?
- Excuse me? - I text her.
(He breaks up through a text message.)
- You break up through a text message? - How mean.
You don't even meet to break up?
"I don't think this will work. Let's break up."
Is there something wrong with that?
(Is there a problem with it?)
Are you nice while you're in the relationship then?
Of course. I'm loyal.
So you suddenly text her the next day to break up?
It's because my love for her has faded away.
- Without a room for doubt, you had... - Why did...
- fun, and then you break up? - your love fade away?
Why did your love for her fade away all of a sudden?
(Why did you change your mind suddenly?)
It just fades away.
(We can neither understand nor communicate with you.)
Even though he has a girlfriend right now...
- He has a girlfriend? - He has one right now?
Yes, there's a girl he's going out with,
but he still hits on women.
- Does his girlfriend know that? - He makes a move?
- What? - Is she okay with that?
- And? - He seduces women even when my wife is there.
We ordered food at a restaurant, then he disappeared.
I called him to find out where he was,
and it turned out that he left with a girl nearby.
- He left you there without saying anything? - Yes.
That's right.
He left while you were waiting for the food?
That's why my wife hates...
- me seeing In Kyu. - "Don't see him."
"What's wrong with him?"
- That's right. - That's what happens.
"Don't you do the same thing as him?"
What's worse is that he's affecting those around me.
That's not right.
- There was... - He breaks up so easily.
my co-worker there. In Kyu said he was around my office.
I didn't even know that he went out with her.
- He came only once though. - Yes.
She even quit working after breaking up with him.
- She called me. - What did she say?
"Why did you introduce him to me..."
"and give me so much trouble?"
- I didn't even introduce him to her. - That's right.
I only had three employees, so after she quit,
work became harder.
- He's like a bullfrog. - Does he have someone?
- He destroys the ecosystem. - The ecosystem.
(I know that you're jealous.)
- I was blamed. - Your girlfriend may see this.
- Will you be okay? - It doesn't matter.
- Why? - My girlfriend...
- will understand. - Then...
- He's just the same. - Then,
can your girlfriend show off her charms...
and date others?
I won't allow it.
That's so selfish.
She must bear it to go out with a handsome boyfriend.
(She must bear it to go out with a handsome boyfriend.)
(He's unbelievable.)
I don't think my relationship method is very bad.
We're not judging you.
I think you're all doing this because you're jealous.
- What I'm saying is... - He came out of jealousy?
- Yes. He's jealous... - You've never been hurt...
from going out with a girl you like.
I have, before I was complete.
- Before you were complete. - "Complete".
- I'm curious. - When you were incomplete.
You couldn't do it before.
He could pursue his way of life alone,
but he's forcing others to follow it too.
- "You should live like me." - Exactly.
- Give me an example. - That's exhausting.
He forces his dating know-how to other employees too.
- I can't believe it. - He came here too.
- He's the employee. - He really came?
Let's meet the employee.
Nice to meet you. Hello.
Hello.
You would empathize with him.
I go through so much trouble because of him.
- Give me an example. - He's about to cry.
- Tell us everything today. - Exactly.
(Say everything honestly!)
- His voice is shaking. - He might cry.
Roll up your sleeves. Good.
He says, "You should become Little Bae In Kyu."
I should work when I come to work in the morning,
but he makes me exercise only.
(His main duty is to build muscles to look stylish.)
He says he'll teach me his skills to be able...
to seduce all women, but I have a girlfriend.
I tell him that it wouldn't be necessary,
then he says, "Do you think you'll marry her?"
- Why? - Why?
"You'll end up breaking up with her anyway."
"If you break up, you'll build yourself more."
"You should meet a better woman."
We'll meet your girlfriend.
Hello.
She's very beautiful.
You'd feel unpleasant because of him and be anxious.
He loves women too much.
(He loves women too much.)
I had a feeling there could be many times...
when he takes him to places with women.
I felt something was weird,
so I went to my boyfriend's place. but he wasn't there.
I called him.
He said he'd be home, but he wasn't there?
- He wasn't home? - I thought he was asleep.
I kept calling, but he didn't answer.
After a long time, he answered my call.
"I couldn't answer because I was sleeping."
However, I knew that he went out for drinks...
with his boss and came home afterwards.
"I'm at your place. What are you talking about?"
"Where are you?"
He confessed later on...
that his boss took him to a nightclub.
Since that time, my suspicion began...
and my feelings toward his boss became negative.
I'm sure.
- He took him to the nightclub for training. - Yes.
Say a few words to him then.
He's your boyfriend.
I really want him to come to his senses.
(Please come to your senses!)
- Is there a reason why you're proud? - The reason.
I think I've got everything since I was...
the top sales representative in Korea many times.
I bought a car for my mother's birthday.
I gain weight easily,
so I wake up at 6am to keep myself in shape.
I believe that I'm winning both work and love,
so I don't think there's a problem with my life.
We'll meet your friend too.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Let's find out with his friend!)
Was he like this before...
or did he change suddenly at one point?
He lacked confidence before.
- Really? - He was fat.
(He was really fat!)
He weighed over 90kg.
He broke up with his girlfriend...
because she cheated on him with another guy.
- From then... - I see.
- Something happened. - The puzzle is put together.
He's taking his revenge.
He wants to be compensated by taking revenge.
He looks a bit like an upstart.
He made a lot of money all of a sudden,
and the world changed completely.
Tell me.
I took revenge in the past, but I don't do that now.
Actually, everyone has a desire to look charming...
to the other gender and to be recognized...
- by them. - That's right.
(I'm just fulfilling my duties as a handsome man!)
What you're doing now...
is like that of your ex-girlfriend who hurt you.
Don't you think you're becoming like her?
(How are you different from your ex-girlfriend?)
Actually, I never thought about it that way.
However, since you're asking me so seriously...
(What's the matter with him?)
I'm saying this because when you're young,
you're eager to appeal to the other gender.
You make money and try to earn high social status.
However, that's not everything.
Will marriage be the end of the story...
because you no longer need to look charming?
It's not like that.
It's not only the other gender that you should appeal.
It's those of the same sex and those within...
your connections. You want to be regarded as nice...
and to be of their help.
The joy from the accomplishment there is great.
What I'm saying is that you mustn't focus on that only.
(He's focusing his money, time, and energy on women.)
I totally understand how his wife...
and the girlfriend there would feel.
I'd hate it if my husband had a friend like that.
Say a few words to your friend.
In Kyu.
I know that you're a good guy.
However, I'm worried that those around you...
- will think badly about you. - What a nice guy.
Please change, In Kyu.
(Live the life for yourself, not for show.)
We'll start from Min Hwan.
Do you think it's a worry or not?
I hope his life will be successful, not just love.
- That's why I think it's a worry. - Hong Gi.
I think he can change soon,
so I don't think it's a serious worry.
Guys who sound honest,
well-mannered and modest...
- are more attractive. - Of course.
I'm sure most women think that way.
That's why I pressed the button. I think it's a worry.
- Dong Geun. - I also think it's a worry.
I think he'd want to show off his handsome looks.
I don't have such self-regard,
so I envy that very much.
However, I thought it was a worry...
because I don't envy your love.
(I don't envy your consumptive love.)
Gosh, it sounded like lyrics of a song.
"I don't envy your love."
If you empathize with his worry, press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1,
- stop. - time's up.
Show us how many votes his story got.
(The result)
I think it got over 100 votes.
- Many thought it was a worry. - I guess so.
- Did it get 132 votes? - 4...
- It got 112 votes. - 112 votes.
(His story got 112 votes.)
"My Goodness..." is the winner of the week.
("My Goodness..." won an overwhelming victory.)
We'll give the winner a certificate. Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free...
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you! - Thank you.
("Happy" by WJSN)